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We always say we don’t need a man, but eventually somewhere in our minds we want one. Either for our present or future selves.

And yes, I do want a guy to like me for who I am, not what I look like. I do want a guy who can look past my faults and make me a better person, someone who makes me happy.

But most of all, I want someone that makes my life better.  In my opinion there’s no point in maintaining a relationship when you were happier or just as happy without it. Let’s face it, a relationship is alot of work and if its not worth it, I won’t take part in it.

This also means that I will fight for a relationship if he makes me happier than I would be without him. And that I will try to make him happy too. Too often we think that making a guy happy is a bad thing, but if your not bending over backwards and he’s making you happy, doesn’t he deserve to be happy too?

So here’s a letter to him.

Dear future boyfriend/spouse/ whoever you are,
            I hope your happy, honestly I do. Because if I’m with you, then you make me happy so thank you. If I’m not, just say so, don’t be afraid to tell me if something bothers you. I won’t be.
Hopefully we make the most of the time we get, and even if we do fall apart, I hope it was worth it.
P.S. If we are married, I apologize for my crazy sleeping positions.
                                 Love (maybe),
                                                      
                                                        Aspen

-AKA Aspen

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