Hey ya’ll this is going to be messy, but I need to write it down. I’m not sure if I’ll post it, but I guess we’ll see.
Yesterday I got sick. Not anything particular major, just a cold. But my body takes things to the extreme so a cold isn’t very enjoyable. A cold isn’t days of coughing and sneezing, a cold is calling doctors and trying not to panic. I feel like I’ve already been told to walk the plank and this is just another inch towards the ocean. Because even though colds can be life threatening for most people, for me it’s in the 80-90% range.
You know sometimes I wish it would just happen. That it’d all be over with. But I don’t want to die. I don’t want to miss everything.
I DON’T WANT TO DIE, I JUST WANT IT TO STOP.
And the people who should be able to help are the most unsure. Hearing my entire future relying on the words, “We don’t know” and “not getting better” isn’t very assuring.
Because you’re not getting better doesn’t mean a future.
You’re not getting better means no future.
You’re not getting better means smashing hope.
You’re not getting better means you probably never will.
It means, I’m not getting better.
I won’t have a future.
But I want a future, that’s all I ever wanted. And I don’t have anyone to blame everyone I’ve ever told has been so kind, I can’t even blame myself because I couldn’t change it if I wanted to. Hell I can’t even blame God because he gave me another chance 5 years ago. I’m just so….. greedy. I want MORE. More than I deserve I guess.
Because you’re not getting better only means you’re getting worse.
I… gosh, all I can say is I’m sorry. I really, really, really hope you get better. I’m hoping those words will change. But try to stay hopeful. sorry I can’t give you any more help, but yeah.
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Thanks people like you are the only thing that’s ever a positive. And yeah I want them to change to
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Ohhh I hope you get better soon! Be hopeful and you’ll have a bright future 🙂
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I hope you’re okay, and I’ve got my fingers crossed for you getting better. I know it’s hard, but try to stay positive xx
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Aw I hope you’re okay, even though I know you’re probably not. We’re all here for you x
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live in the moment, I know that’s dumb coming from someone who isn’t ill, but seriously, live for now, *hugs* don’t lose hope ❤
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“More than you deserve”? Come on, Aspen!! I know you better than that. You deserve the very BEST, and you’ve been so strong through all of this. Everyone crumbles every once in a while. I’m always here if you need some encouragement or just want to chat. And I’ll always be rooting for you! ❤
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Hey, I have a new blog, mind checking it out? http://www.livsspace.wordpress.com
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Aspen…sometimes things are thrown at us to test our strength, and sometimes we stumble. But from hearing you talk since last July (I can’t believe it’s been that long) you’ve changed my life with your brave heart and a intrepid soul. YOU are amazing! And really, I can’t imagine a life without you now, because every day I get on and look for a Aspen post. So I’m praying every day for you to get better and I promise I will never lose hope! I love you!
Your blogging twin and friend,
Liv
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I don’t know where my comment went, it took me forever to write….
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Yeah… I don’t know about that. But thank you 😦
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*:)
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I really am, sometimes I just get tired of it, you know? But thanks 🙂
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Yeah I’m not and I don’t know what it will take for me to be okay, but you are all wonderful 🙂
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Oh Aspen,just have high hopes!! You’ll get better just trust me 🙂
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Haha yeah I do! I have crutches sitting in the corner of my room XD
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Sorry wrong comment XD
And that’s what I’m trying to do, but right now all my moments are miserable.
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Any time. I didn’t really help much, but I’m here if you need me xx
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I do, I really do. But I can’t tell myself it’s going to be okay when it might not, I can’t lie to myself.
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And that’s all I would ever ask for 🙂
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Everything will be just fine 🙂
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Don’t make me take you up on that
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Beeee positive Aspen!! 😉
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Haha I’m really trying Dz, and I can be. I know that there’s always a possibility that everything is okay and I’m holding onto it tighter than anyone else. I just can’t ignore the fact that it might not.
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Thanks it really means alot 🙂
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It’s just that sometimes I feel like I’m rebuilding myself for other people so that on the outside I seem fine but inside I’m barely standing. Literally 😉 Okay that wasn’t very funny….
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Well hope will make the way and I don’t want any ifs and buts!
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Yo I found out that all your comments were going to the spam thing for some reason,so I’m going to reply to all of them now! And YESSSS I definitely want to see it!!!
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Oh my gosh Liv! You have no idea how much this means to me! I can’t believe we’ve grown so close either, and I LOVE it. Just so you know, people like you are the reason I want to stick around. I love you too blogging twin! -Aspen AKA the girl forever in your debt 😉
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Ma’am yes ma’am!
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^_^
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Aw, no, I get it. But I just want you to have somewhere to go when you can’t stand anymore.
(literally…except not :P)
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That makes a lot of sense… thank you 🙂
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Thank you! Xx
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Of course! Anytime, anytime at all ❤
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Aww, not in my debt at all.
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Of course I am 🙂
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